Before I started dating my husband I had been sexual active with several different guys. Ok so heres the question... When I see these guys and even when my husband is with me they make comments (of course my husband can't hear them bc he's walked off or something) like they want to do stuff with me. Even right before I got married an ex wanted to go out to dinner (hes married and has kids) should I tell my husband about this? Or should I just ignore the guys and drop it?No you drop those guys outta your life completely right now, any man that hits on a woman that is married is being very piggish in my opinion. Marriage is hard enough as it is without temptation rearing its head up all the time. And maybe you should tell your husband, honesty about everything is key and if it were me and my wife told me something like that, i would never leave her alone with those men and id be telling them to back the **** off.I wouldn't tell your husband yet. Tell these guys to cut it out. If they don't then cut off the contact with them. Then tell your husband.
Also, if you think someone else is going to say something about it I would tell him. I tell my man everything . I quit telling my ex everything when he betrayed me!tell your husband I say. Make sure he knows that you have told these guys to get lost...but don't try to hide things from him...it only ends up badly!!!!Ah well....this is the backlash of having more fingerprints on your than a doorknob.
Should have kept those legs together more often than spreading them for every Tom, Dick, harry and everyone else.
Plus if these guys are making these type of remarks to you then it goes to show your choice of caliber when it comes to males is pretty questionable.
I personally tell my husband about things like this just because I wouldn't want to feel like I was hiding it and I tell him everything. But they aren't comments from the few people I have been with, but from people I don't know or barely at all. He has already scared away anyone that I have ever had anything to do with before him..LOLWhat happened between you and your previous relationships before marriage is in the past. You don't need to tell your husband about it if you can tell these other men that you are now married and that they shouldn't be speaking in such a way to you anymore because you're now a married woman.
If after having done this, those men continue to badger you for sexual favors, then that would be a situation that would warrant you telling your husband about your past life and how it has caught up with you.
I'm not asking you to hide things from your husband. I'm only advising you to try to resolve this problem on your own before resorting to other measures which might not be necessary or which might cause problems for you. Not all men are mature enough to accept the past and focus on the present and the future.
*smiles*You should tell all this guys not to bother you anymore cause you married.If you need help with this question it is because you do not trust yourself to keep your legs closed. What you need to do stop thinking about all of those dudes you sucked off in nighclub bathrooms and gas station tiolets and get you head wrapped around the guy who would actually stay with you after he dumped his stuff down your throat. Now that you have what you want you will blow it all by cheating on him because that is what whores do. They blow stuff. So, if you are still a tramp or a pin cushion then ask this question again. I think you will blow it.DONT tell ur husband about this
just ignore those jerks who dont appreciate marriage ..
now mine plz ?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...The question to you is, "Are you happy?" You can tell your husband that you had been with other men in your past(all men know this about thier wives). But that's where they are, in your past. Don't let these other men stop you from being happy. If your husband really loves you, he will understand.you should tell everything anyway that was past and just ignore themtell him because if u just ignore it they will continue doing it and if u dont say anything back they will probably tell ur husband something that didnt happen so like that if u tell him he will know that u dont hide anything from him and he will trust uHow are those guys still around? You should definitely tell him because they're doing it behind his back. He'll find out soon enough - it's better if it comes from you and you have a chance to explain that you love him and he's the best thing since sliced bread, then he won't care about it. If he finds out from someone else, he's going to be upset and not trust you.You must be doing something to attract these fellas again. Change your ways girl!#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
|
March 21st, 2010 at March 21, 2010 | |
Permalink