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Contacted him after 12 years. Sounds like he's in shock?

  • I dated this guy during Senior Year in high school. We lost touch over the years, and now I'm 31. I'm scared because he's not giving me any information. I still have feelings for him and saved his picture all these years. I took his virginity. Should I respond to his message or wait and see if he calls?

    Initial contact was by me:

    Are you from XXXX? Just wondering. Thought I might have known you a long time ago...

    Response:
    Today at 12:52pm
    Holy cow. Yes I am from XXXX. Yes I remember you. Wow, it has been like 10-12 years. How are you?

    Today at 12:57pm
    Oh. my. gosh. I was digging through some old things the other day and I found your Senior picture from high school. I had written your name, how long we dated, and our "song"- The Woman in Me- Shaniah Twain on the back of the picture.

    Things are really good for me- thank you for asking. I live in the XXXX suburbs and work a company in the XXXX. I am divorced and have a little girl, but honestly I feel blessed. I just ran the Chicago marathon in October and plan to train for another one in Spring somewhere.

    How are you XXXX?

    Today at 1:10pm
    I just can't believe its you. Do you have any type of chat that we can talk? Maybe yahoo messenger or something?

    Today at 4:17pm
    Sorry it took so long to get back to you- I had some things to do. You can call me if you want. (phone number), or my email address is XXXXXX. I don't really do Yahoo! Messenger, but I can set one up. My Yahoo contact name is XXXXXX.

    Today at 4:40pm
    This is so crazy. I didn't think I would ever hear from you again. Well, I will try to give you a call sometime.


  • I just got back with my ex from highschool also!!! We met up on Myspace.....he was very excited to see me, and see how much I have changed over the years (9 years)....The feelings were still there when we met up,. but we have both agreed to take things sloooooowly..Good Luck! He sounds happy to hear from you:)


  • DONT RESPOND! wait for him to make the next contact.


  • I would say let him make the next move but if you don't hear from him in a few days then type a little e-mail just to say hi.Good luck!


  • I can't tell who said what because you just give the times and not the person who wrote each message. It is a little confusing. It is a little weird to like somebody that long. People change a lot as they get older, and if I were him, I would think you were insane for liking him that long. Did he send the last message? If so, you should wait for him to call, and if he doesn't, it is probably because he thinks you are crazy and is hoping you will go away.


  • call him like asap!
    duhhh


  • Let him make the next move. Otherwise you will look lonely and/or desparate.


  • i would probably be in shock to not seeing or talking to someone for like 10 years you should respond to his message or dont if you dont want to


  • Keep in touch with this guy. You never know what might happen. Hope all works out for you.


  • Just call the guy! Stop saying how "crazy" it is that you two are talking again. Call him and update him on your life - ask him about his. And go from there!

    Good luck!


  • i think that you should call him since initiated the contact. It seems like he does want you to call him because other wise he would not have given you his number and email. Go for it, it is always good to catch up with old friend ;)


  • Wow! That's really so sweet. But I think the sometime means that it's probably not his top on his "to do" list.

    Make him want to prioritize you. Add him on messenger and chat with him. Email him back, tell him about how you've been over the years. Make him fascinated. Make him want to meet you in person. Make him curious. :P

    Answer mine please?
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...


  • he is shocked but it looks good for you if you are trying to get back together with him but take it slow so you guys can reconnect


  • Thats awesome! I just kind of asked a question about this! Kind of puts a smile on my face knowing that people can reconnect after so long!

    I dont know if you want to get back together with him or him vice versa, but it sounds awesome!

    But yeah i think you should send him a message, maybe telling him your schedual as to when a good time to call might be...just something casual like, i'm done work at 5 so anytime after 6 this week is a good time to call!

    please answers mine!
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...


  • Just answer back something like,
    Yeah, it is crazy. Well anyways, it would be interestesting catching up with you. Maybe we can talk soon. Take care.

    That way you answered him and let him know you wanted him to contact you. Then wait to see if he contacts you. Don't be pushy and don't keep writing to him if he doesn't respond soon. You don't know his situation and he could either be single or happily married. All you can do after you respond is wait. Oh, try not to get your hopes up because since he didn't tell you anything about him, he might be taken.


  • Definetly keep in contact....see where things go.....good luck!!!! This is a cute little story!!!! Exchange numbers....give him a call and see what happens!!!


  • omg definitely call or contact somehow! its amazing that you guys can reunite after all these years! =D


  • hey call him if you are interested! or he could slip by







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